Video from DTBM
"BAD BOYS AND MEN LOOK AND ACT LIKE THIS Now, for the other side of the fence. What type of man would God say to stay away from, avoid imitating, and setting any attention or affection upon? Here is the list: 1. Beware of becoming a Perverse speaker (2.12) Proverbs 2:12 To deliver you from the way of evil, From the man who speaks perverse things. This is one whose mouth is familiar with words that are off-color, smutty, innuendo, vulgar, and crass. 2. Beware of becoming a Wicked Person(5.22) Proverbs 5:22 His own iniquities entrap the wicked man, And he is caught in the cords of his sin. To this man God, God's Word, God’s worship, holiness, purity – are all repulsive and a cause for mockery. A wicked person easily mocks discipline, they mock humility, they mock respect and they mock authority. 3. Beware of becoming a Worthless Person (6.12) Proverbs 6:12 A worthless person, a wicked man, Walks with a perverse mouth. This type of man has no direction, no purpose, no goals, no plans, they are just wanderers through life looking for and finding bad stuff. 4. Beware of becoming a Lustful Person (6.26-27) Proverbs 6:26-27 For by means of a harlot A man is reduced to a crust of bread; And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life. 27 Can a man take fire to his bosom, And his clothes not be burned? Watch their eyes. What turns their head? If a man can’t resist looking at a woman, married or not, he won’t stop those wandering eyes, wandering hands, unsatisfied longings. A lustful man chases anyone for merely external appeal, looks for cheap and quick thrills; and will only grow more lustful, more unsatisfied, and more ungodly. 5. Beware of becoming an Empty Person (7.7) Proverbs 7:7 And saw among the simple, I perceived among the youths, A young man devoid of understanding, This is a person with no substance, no depth, no long term visible growth, no discipline, they work to buy shoes, to prowl the malls, to play video games, to waste their lives doing nothing of substance or worth. 6. Beware of becoming a Foolish Person (10.23) Proverbs 10:23 To do evil is like sport to a fool, But a man of understanding has wisdom. You can spot this type of fellow because he always clowns around, always wants attention, always seeks to dominate conversations, always seeks to catch the spotlight, shows off, brags, takes needless risks, always daring others, never respects authority. In fact, a foolish child is a child who cannot control themselves when outside the reach of their parents. Your child should sit with you until they are mature enough to sit alone without talking, writing notes, giggling, poking, and drawing others' attention away from the teacher, the pastor, the leader, or the ministry. 7. Beware of becoming a Lazy Person (10.26) Proverbs 10:26 As vinegar to the teeth and smoke to the eyes, So is the lazy man to those who send him. This is the fellow who lays around, avoids work, loafs, sleeps in, overeats oversleeps, is always late, always behind. 8. Beware of becoming a Cruel Person (11.17) Proverbs 11:17 The merciful man does good for his own soul, But he who is cruel troubles his own flesh. This type is mean to animals, mean to people, hurts with words, often angry. 9. Beware of becoming a Quick Tempered Person (14.17) Proverbs 14:17 A quick-tempered man acts foolishly, And a man of wicked intentions is hated. This is the red-faced, hot worded, hasty and physical person who shoves, pushes, and easily fights with those who get in his way." from video introduction.