Prayer Isn’t About Being Good: Kyle Strobel on How to Escape Performative Prayer
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Prayer Isn’t About Being Good: Kyle Strobel on How to Escape Performative Prayer
"Tired of fake prayer? Discover the real, raw heart of connecting with God beyond perfection or performance!
Want a deeper prayer life? We’re exploring how prayer is often misunderstood as a performance rather than an honest encounter with God. Josh Lewis welcomes Dr. Kyle Strobel, associate professor of spiritual theology at Talbot School of Theology, @BiolaUniversity to explore spiritual formation, the messiness of prayer, and how Christian theology meets lived experience.
In this episode of Remnant Radio, Josh and Kyle navigate the tension between seeking God’s presence and living by faith even amid spiritual dryness. We’ll explore spiritual warfare and examine why our wandering minds in prayer are actually gifts, revealing the longings of our hearts. Their conversation bridges scholarly theology with down-to-earth practical wisdom, equipping you for a vibrant Christian life marked by honest prayer, theological depth, and spiritual growth.
0:00 – Introduction 5:24 – "Where Prayer Becomes Real" overview 7:23 – Common confusions about prayer 12:16 – The performance mindset 16:00 – How real honesty changes prayer 22:28 – Law vs. gospel distinction 26:20 – Prayers that avoid God 29:53 – Biblical examples: authenticity vs. performance 33:01 – The path for Christian growth 45:56 – Tension: desiring spiritual experiences and God’s sufficiency 54:09 – Seeking God’s face 59:05 – The “dark night of the soul,” longing for God, and spiritual formation 1:00:56 – Closing